For many, marriage is a major milestone in life. For me, however, it has become a symbol of a decision I consciously choose not to make – at least not as lightly as before. This has a lot to do with my experiences but also with my beliefs about money, personal freedom, and conscious choices.
What I Have Learned from My Past
In the past, I thought getting married was the natural next step if you loved someone. But reality looked different. Looking back, I often let societal expectations guide me more than my own gut feeling. The result was a relationship that became not only emotionally but also financially burdensome.
Marriage Costs – Not Just Money
A wedding might be expensive, but the real costs come afterward. Joint accounts, debts, or commitments like a mortgage can become burdens, especially if the relationship starts to crack. And let's be honest: Money is one of the most common sources of conflict in relationships.
I have realized that I am freer without the legal commitment of marriage – both emotionally and financially. This freedom allows me to shape my life according to my own vision. Instead of putting my money and energy into a marriage, I invest in my future.
Stocks Instead of Rings
Instead of spending money on wedding costs, I channel it into my investment portfolio. Every euro not spent on extravagant celebrations or unnecessary consumption works for me. Dividend stocks not only provide financial security but also a sense of independence.
Conclusion
Again this year, I won't be getting married – not because I reject love, but because I want to take care of myself first. My emotional and financial freedom come first. If the right person comes along, I'm open to reconsidering things. But until then, my focus is clear: independence and my goals.
Tip for Readers
Before you decide to get married, ask yourself honestly: Are you making this decision for yourself or because of societal pressure? Love should never be an obligation but a choice made out of conviction and freedom.